Πέμπτη 27 Μαΐου 2021

So Long Aunt Katina !

 


So Long Aunt Katina !

by Justine Frangouli-Argyris

 

My aunt Katina was a girl among the many children born to the Vlachos family, in the mountainous village of Exanthia, in Lefkada. This did not bode well for the youngsters, especially for the girls, as the village and its surrounding area were located in a barren region of the island.

 In her early youth, however, she received an invitation from her siblings who had immigrated to Sydney and, thus, happily found herself in Australia. There, she began to work for her own well-being, to build her dowry, as well as for that of her family back home.

 Voyaging by ocean liner to Australia, she followed the fate of thousands of Greek immigrants who sought a better life abroad. With her brothers’ support and with her youth and desire for work, she had reached thirty by the time she was ready to wed.

 As most of her compatriots, she desired to wed a 'man from her hometown' and, thus, uncle Leonidas Frangoulis, the youngest of my respected father's brothers, came into the picture. “Uncle Leonidis,” as he was called back home in Englouvi where he was destined to a life grazing the family’s sheep, was a delicate creature who did not take to agricultural work. When a marriage proposal with Katina’s picture arrived depicting her black hair and dark, glowing look, he instantly decided to depart for Sydney, to marry her and start a family.

 I remember, there in her paternal house, in the middle of Exanthia, at the engagement party that was held, the groom dancing with the photo of the bride he had received and impatiently waiting to meet her upon his arrival in the distant world down under. The guests danced the “tsamiko” and the “kalamatiano” and they sang and played the violins while uncle Leonidis was full of emotion as he would be off to a better life in Australia but leaving his family and homeland behind.

 Aunt Katina welcomed him there. He fell in love with her warm personality and liveliness and they soon became a couple before God. They sent us the very large wedding photos that showed Katina wearing a beautiful wedding dress with a white tulle. I remember this photo that sat on the buffet in my grandmother Konstantia's house in Englouvi.

As children, we had never met aunt Katina but we learned to love her from afar because uncle Leonidis would send letters every month that my father would read aloud to us.

 Katina helped Leonidas start out and, together, they worked hard to make a good home. Soon, their only child, the beautiful Konstantina,(Kossy) was born who took the colors of her mother and the “Frangoulis” features of her father.

 After 12 years, along with 10-year old Konstantina, they finally returned to Greece for the first time. And they brought goodies from Australia, I do not remember what and how, only that a set of “formal” cutlery was given to my Mother who was always quick to mention this at our special family gatherings.

 Aunt Katina was a sweet yet dynamic woman, a quiet force, who stood strongly by her family but never failed to support her extended family in Lefkada. They visited their homeland many times over the years and my Mom was happy with her sister-in-law , for her kindness, immediacy and honesty. Although separated by continents and oceans, whenever they got together they spoke like sisters who had never been apart.

 Aunt Katina was happy to see her daughter Konstantina graduate from Univeristy, marry her love, John, and have two exceptional children, Chris and Katerina,( who took her grandma’s name). She was very active, an excellent cook and housewife and, when we visited them in 2012, she opened her big arms and welcomed us lovingly. She organized a big feast with all the Greek specialties and treated us as if we were her own. Our unforgettable moments in Australia with uncle Leonidis and aunt Katina are recorded forever in my memory and my heart.

 In her final years, Aunt Katina suffered as her beloved Leonidis was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and was unable to recognize her. As such, perhaps it's better that she left, and he will not realize it. However she departed tragically and abruptly hit by a car in the middle of the road.

 Have a good trip to heaven Aunt Katina. We will remember you with a lot of love for what you were to all of us. Warm greetings to my grandparents, your brothers-in-law and cousins. And a special hug to our “Butterfly.”  I promise you will be in the best company! Until we meet again!

Τετάρτη 19 Μαΐου 2021

Recipes and Stories from Athena's Kitchen!

 A beautiful cook book with personal narratives from battered women who have found shelter in the SHIELD OF ATHENA has recently been published with the proceeds going towards the new shelter in Laval that is currently under construction.

The book comprises recipes from women of many origins who have been the victims of domestic violence. Their journey, from being battered to attaining their freedom, is a worthy read and the recipes from their countries of origin and are truly interesting.

Buy it now to become a partof a collective memory and to help women free themselves from conjugalviolence!

 



JOIN US ON AN AMAZING JOURNEY 

AROUND THE WORLD!

"Recipes and Stories from Athena's Kitchen"

A compilation of recipes and messages of strength and courage

from survivors of intimate partner violence.

 

SOPHIE GRÉGOIRE TRUDEAU opens The Shield’s cookbook with a forward dedicated to the women of Athena’s House, in recognition of their inspirational journey towards a life free of violence.  

“Throughout history, the kitchen has been a friendly and joyful place to gather and to share our stories and our sorrows. But if our potential and talent is to continue to spread in different spheres of society over time, the work for equity and social justice must continue.” Sophie Grégoire Trudeau

Available in both English and French, the Shield of Athena’s cookbook offers readers an insight on the women who have stayed at our shelter, Athena’s House, and their journey towards a life free of violence.  

The book is comprised of 34 recipes of appetizers, main dishes and desserts. Twenty different countries are represented! Amongst these delicacies, the reader will be inspired by the women’s stories as they share their struggles and their triumphs.

These recipes were shared during our therapeutic cooking activities and helped foster a sense of normalcy and safety to the participants.

We dedicate this book to the women of Athena’s house and to the universal language of food that transcends our differences and connects us all.

Buy it here!

Recipes and Stories From Athena's Kitchen – Shield of Athena's Art Sale (myshopify.com)

Πέμπτη 13 Μαΐου 2021

The “Doveegene” Genomic Pap Test: Not a Cause but, Rather, a Destination!

 


The “Doveegene” Genomic Pap Test:

Not a Cause but, Rather, a Destination!

 

On May 12th, with the participation of more than 200 registrants, the Lyceum of Greek Women of Montreal (LGWM), in co-operation with the MUHC Foundation, organized the “Joanne and Melina Virtual Event” that focused on the clinical trials of the “Doveegene” genomic pap test under renowned oncologist/gynecologist of MUHC/McGill, Dr. Lucy Gilbert.

 Aphrodite Salas, professor of Journalism at Concordia University, graciously hosted the event which was enriched by the presence of Dr. Pierre Gfeller, President and CEO of the MUHC. Dr. Gfeller began by introducing the Canadian Minister of Health, the Honorable Patty Hajdu, who noted the government’s efforts to fund medical research projects, some of which focus on gender equality. Patty Hajdu emphasized the importance of the “Doveegene” clinical trials and an end result that will save millions of women’s lives in the future.

 This was the third year that the Lyceum of Greek Women of Montreal organized an event dedicated to fundraising for the "DOvEEgene Project" which focuses on the early detection of ovarian and endometrial cancers.

 The LGWM has already contributed $100,000.00 to the project to date. With this fundraising event, the goal is to collect an additional $50.000.00.

 The audience was captivated by the narratives of the event’s main figures, Melina Tsagaropoulos, a 31-year old mother, and Joanne Photiades, vice-president of the “Doveegene” Genomic Pap Test fundraising campaign, who related their experiences with ovarian cancer, bringing tears to people’s eyes.

 Justine Frangouli-Argyris, President of the LGWM, said that as a journalist and woman who lost her younger sister to ovarian cancer, she feels the need to help in the prevention of this silent killer. She said that “Doveegene” is not a cause but, rather, a destination.

 Dr. Lucy Gilbert, named one of Canada's "Top 25 Women of Influence for 2021" and a global expert in gynecology/oncology and genomics at the MUHC, presented the “DOvEEgene” test which aims to make a significant scientific breakthrough for the early diagnosis of ovarian and endometrial cancers. She invited all women aged 45 to 70 years to participate in the “Doveegene” clinical trials by registering with her team.

 To get this project from the research laboratory to a clinical-grade test, the MUHC Foundation is raising $2M with its “Stop the Silent Killer” campaign. The plan is to leverage public funding to triple this amount.

While many researchers are working on ovarian and endometrial cancers, Dr. Gilbert is the sole researcher developing an early detection test and she is uniquely positioned to achieve this goal.

Even though laboratories in the U.S. may have superior funding, Dr. Gilbert’s expertise as a physician and her access to a diverse group of women given our public healthcare system will enable her to finish the clinical study required to confirm her discovery.

 In her closing remarks, Julie Quenneville, CEO of the MUHC Foundation, reiterated how important it is to have the “Doveegene” Genomic pap test become a tool for every woman in order to prevent endometrial and ovarian cancers.

 Messages of praise and good wishes were delivered to Dr. Gilbert and the LGWM from the following local female politicians:

Emmanuella Lambropoulos, M.P. for Saint Laurent;

Annie Koutrakis, M.P.for Vimy; 

Sandra El-Helou, City Councillor for Souvenir-Labelle;

Mary Deros, City Councillor for Villeray, St-Michel-Park Extension;

Aglaia Revelakis, City Councillor for Chomedey

 A song by well known Greek-Canadian singer, Maro Lytras, was aired, soothing the audience.

 The LGWM would like to thank its major sponsors: 

1) the City of Laval and Municipal Councillor for Souvenir-Labelle, Sandra El-Helou; 

2) Ernst and Young; 

3) real estate agents Vicky Georgiadou and Nancy Zentefis of Les Immeubles Charisma;

4) Gestion Immobiliere Provision; 

5) Thalia Greek wines; 

6) Global Imperial;

7) radio station CFMB; 

 Many thanks to all our donors and especially to Dr. Athena Diamandis and Dr. Andre Shenouda for their very generous contribution.

Congratulations and heartfelt thanks to Mary Arvanitis and Lisa Mastroianni for co-ordinating the virtual event on behalf of the MUHC Foundation!

Click here to donate now Lyceum of Greek Women of Montreal (akaraisin.com)

·         If you want to participate in the clinical trials register here:

·         doveegene@mcgill.ca/contact

·         Or call at 1 866 716 3267